Expert Professional Advice

The unending journey towards spiritual growth… Not with this book. There isn’t much that is interesting, except these two points:

Most likely to apply to your husband:Appreciation and gestures that show you care are valuable to your husband.

Optimal communication requires your full attention along with a generous and good-natured spirit that conveys a child-like optimism. Guys, you have to realize the difference, if a woman discusses her problems as a way to share her feelings then she’s not looking for solutions (if you can see the answer to the problem, she can, too). Female communication can act as a method to express feelings and create bonding. The result achieved is not problem solving but of sharing experiences. When it’s your turn to share she’ll answer her phone or check her email on her phone. It may not be fair but she can modify the communication flow at any time. If she is feeling uneasy or depressed, you will be expected to cheer her up but don’t expect anything you do will alter her mood. So fellas, listen to her by hearing her out completely, and respond because thinking in silence is not something women relate to as a form of intimacy.

Women may use communication to engage in an emotional connection or bond so the nature of their communication speaks from the heart but men may view communication as a tool or framework to achieve a result like solving a problem. So fellas, shut up and listen to your gal… don’t needlessly offer advice, be committed to being in the moment with her by sharing the moment.